You can allow others to create your happiness and bliss, or you can create your own happiness and bliss. When you allow others to create it for you, you will be tossed and turned by the waves of the sea. For others will fail from time to time, and seeking outwardly for love negates the most important person which is you. Seek independence, seek self reliance, seek self love and then the world will correspond to your inner world. Danny G.